"Spoiled Children"
Did you parents' reactions influence directly on children's behavior, and can creat diverse consequences on them? this article presents aus some important information about how parents' behavior effects their children's personality. the article explains that by spoiling, many parents ruin their child's behavior. Therefore spoiled children become children who do not drow up in a rght psycology bahavior. According to the defenision, these children have some personality problems that prevent them from negotiating the challenges of adult life. These children mostly are unable to become independant, and can not achieve thair aim. Normally these children do not respect order, fainess and honestly. They mostly do not consider the needs of other people and they develope the sense of entitlement which typically causes problems at work and even in relationships.
Finally spoiled children do naot have good self- steem. At the end the author presents a suggestion that parents can consider their spiole children by testing them and also can change them. The most significant idea in my opinion is spoiled children are not able to become independence. One reason this is true is that parents try to prepare most things thair children ask them. Therefore, the parents do it to keep thair child happy all the time. While they rae doing so, their child does not learn to be patient. Because of that, these children would mostly become idealistic in their adulthood and would not try to do all their best in any occasion.
One reason is that,durring the human's life, there are lots of up and down situations that he/she would have. Therefore most of the children who raised in a wealthy family, because of having everything prepared and ready by their rich parents, normaly, they are unable to prepare many nessesary things by themeselves if they fell in situation that get have to save something like mony or other things.
Anoter reason that I bealieve is that such a behavior by parents does not let the children become deep minded. This reminds me of one of my family 's child. Due to having everything ready by his parents, when he grown up, he did not pay attention to or even did not value on the troubles that his parents passed to buy or prepare the things he asked from them. He did not recognise the meaning of being respectful for the value of his parents' effort. finally he sold all the machendise and instead of spending the money in aright way, he used it to buy druges.
In conclusion, I strongly believe that the parents should be more careful about how they raise their children.
“The American Family”
In the recent 2 decades, researches have shown that the American family have changed in different ways. First differences is that working parents especially the educated ones tend to spend a lot more time with their family than their previous generation did. Sconde of all, in these days, couples prefer to marry till they get more mature and comfortable, and also, they rather to postpone the time of having children too. Forth more, the married couples do not believe that a happy marriage is based on having children. All of these matters in marriage, families, and parenting has influence exactly on the family life which is called the Hedonic marriage. Therefor this pattern is refers to married spouses who share the burders of home, children and work, so because of that, they can spend more enjoyable time together. According to the research, educated parents tend to spend more time with their children. I think the most significant idea is that educated parents spend more time with their children so, that could have different reasons which can have positive effects on their children.
One reason that I beleive is that when a person attends to school, step by step, in different terms of studing, they get have to struggle more and also be more patient, so because of that, they unconciesly, treat to be more patient to find better ways of being happy with their family and children. That reminds me of one of my friends who was not patient in any problem in her life. When she married with an educated man. At first she had lot of problems with her husband. After a while, she decided to attend school, because of getting have to struggle more, she found tha way of how to control her behavior and also being patient for any problem which she had.
Another reason is information. Although each major refers to different terms to learn, durring the studing and researching time, the level of the student's information increases. Eventhogh there are diverse majors that have no relationship in how to behave with people in family, but base on the information and also the way of how to find the result of the problems, the person would find the way of how to behave with his/her family specially when they have problem. In other words, it is possible to say that gaining different information would make the person's mind more wider base on it's way and soloutions. Therefore he/ she can think deeper to have the best relationship with their family and children. For instance, a student in a university normaly has deeper level of thinking that a high school student.
In conclusion I believe that educating or studding would enhance the person's mind in the way that she/he would be able to solve problems with their family and children better for spending more happy time with them.
In the recent 2 decades, researches have shown that the American family have changed in different ways. First differences is that working parents especially the educated ones tend to spend a lot more time with their family than their previous generation did. Sconde of all, in these days, couples prefer to marry till they get more mature and comfortable, and also, they rather to postpone the time of having children too. Forth more, the married couples do not believe that a happy marriage is based on having children. All of these matters in marriage, families, and parenting has influence exactly on the family life which is called the Hedonic marriage. Therefor this pattern is refers to married spouses who share the burders of home, children and work, so because of that, they can spend more enjoyable time together. According to the research, educated parents tend to spend more time with their children. I think the most significant idea is that educated parents spend more time with their children so, that could have different reasons which can have positive effects on their children.
One reason that I beleive is that when a person attends to school, step by step, in different terms of studing, they get have to struggle more and also be more patient, so because of that, they unconciesly, treat to be more patient to find better ways of being happy with their family and children. That reminds me of one of my friends who was not patient in any problem in her life. When she married with an educated man. At first she had lot of problems with her husband. After a while, she decided to attend school, because of getting have to struggle more, she found tha way of how to control her behavior and also being patient for any problem which she had.
Another reason is information. Although each major refers to different terms to learn, durring the studing and researching time, the level of the student's information increases. Eventhogh there are diverse majors that have no relationship in how to behave with people in family, but base on the information and also the way of how to find the result of the problems, the person would find the way of how to behave with his/her family specially when they have problem. In other words, it is possible to say that gaining different information would make the person's mind more wider base on it's way and soloutions. Therefore he/ she can think deeper to have the best relationship with their family and children. For instance, a student in a university normaly has deeper level of thinking that a high school student.
In conclusion I believe that educating or studding would enhance the person's mind in the way that she/he would be able to solve problems with their family and children better for spending more happy time with them.